Miss Vera's Academy Online

tips from her finishing school for boys who want to be girls

by Veronica Vera


From the time I created Miss Vera's Finishing School for Boys Who Want to Be Girls, the world's first male to female crossdressing academy, my Princess phone began to ring off the hook. At the other ends of the lines were the often nervous, usually husky, sometimes breathy, mostly polite and always excited voices of the men - the Stephanies and Jennifers, Denises and JoAnns - prospective students like you, all of whom wanted to explore what they felt as their feminine side. They felt her like children feel an imaginary friend. Often, she had been with them since childhood. Some could look in the mirror and see her in their eyes. In reading about the academy they felt they had found someone who believed in her too. Most callers asked me if the school was for real. Could I actually help them to "pass" as female? When I answered, "yes", it was as if someone had confirmed the existence of Santa Claus, or as I prefer to think of myself, Cinderfella's fairy godmother.

I quickly felt myself riding the crest of success, uplifted on the broad shoulders of a sea of grateful men in skirts. Not only had I put my well manicured finger on the pulse of every crossdresser's dream, but I had tapped into the rich mother lode of the male psyche. Crossdressers are not atypical. They are simply the most obvious reflection of a longing that I believe is common to all men. My students are a bold avant garde that represent the other men's movement. You may have heard of the "Iron Johns", well meet the iron butterflies.

When women felt the need to share more in the male experience, to move from the home to the workplace, from the bedroom to the boardroom, to be financially independent and sexually autonomous, we created the women's movement. Men, too, have a need for balance in their lives, to share more in what from their points of view are the most desirable aspects of the female experience? to be pampered and protected, to be glamourous and sexually irresistible, and, yes, even to do housework - many of the "privileges" that we women saw as confining. For every woman who burned her bra, there is a man ready to wear one.

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